Your soul is serene because it knows how to magnetize love. Your soul does not struggle or work hard for love. It experiences an abundance of love all the time. You can experience the magnetic quality of soul love and draw love and all good things to yourself. Sense the magnetic quality of this field of love that emanates from your heart center, located in an area around your physical heart. Imagine magnetic rings of love spiraling out from your heart center, drawing love to you in all its forms, aspects, and expressions. As you radiate soul love, you are magnetic to the beauty and love within people and to all good things that the universe has to offer.
Many of the things people do for other people are for the purpose of receiving love in exchange. You may have been taught that love was something you had to earn through your good behavior and through fulfilling other people's needs. You may have trouble setting boundaries with others, thinking that to do so you might hurt their feelings or push away their love. If you think love comes to you only when you earn or deserve it, it is time to experience the magnetic quality of soul love.
Reflect on your relationship to someone important. Are you working hard to earn this person's love, doing things you do not truly want to do? Are you being pulled between doing what you think the other person wants you to do, so that this person will love you, and fulfilling your own goals, aspirations, and soul's directions? What do you think this person might do, or how might this person feel, if you stopped doing the things you are doing to earn love?
Magnetize love and
all good things to yourself ི❥
Sense your heart center, filled with your soul's magnetic love. It is not what you say or do–it is the love that is the essence of your being that draws people to you and keeps them with you. Fill your heart center with your soul's love. Radiate the magnetic quality of love to the person you have chosen. Feel how magnetic your love is to receiving love in return.
Translate your soul connection into a statement that defines for you the new way you are going to think about this relationship. You might say something such as, "I offer you soul love. It is the most important gift I can give you. I now magnetize the highest and best that our relationship has to offer." If it applies, you can also add, "I will no longer work or struggle to win your love. I will not try to win your love by anticipating your needs and filling them. I will honor your ability to fulfill your own needs." Take a moment to think about all the love you have received from this person. Appreciate how magnetic you already are to love. Recognize all the ways that you easily and naturally draw love to yourself.
Feel the difference between being magnetic to love, and working hard for love. When you magnetize love you stay in the center of your being and in touch with your soul. Love flows out from you and draws love to you. You do not send your awareness out to others to anticipate their needs and moods so you can then behave in certain ways to gain their love.
When you are magnetic to love you stop doing things you do not want to do so others will love you. Instead, you do things that are loving to yourself. When you are magnetic to love you are not dependent upon one person as your source of love; you can receive love from anywhere and everywhere. You are serene because you know you can experience an abundance of love by radiating soul love that magnetizes love in all of its forms and expressions to you.
~ Orin & Daben, Sanaya Roman and Duane Packer
from Soul Love

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